I know that kids don’t want to think about it, but most have about two to three weeks before they are back in the classroom pursuing an education some of them don’t want. For some, particularly in the St. Louis Public School District and the Riverview Garden School District, they will return to the same building, but with different principals, teachers, and staff. What happens if your second grader has been waiting all summer to go to Mrs. Smith’s third grade class and Mrs. Smith isn’t returning? One way is to go to the school as early as possible and see if you can find out who will be your child’s teacher this year. Talk with the teacher and find out some fun and exciting facts about the teacher, what the teacher’s expectations are for their students, and what the principal’s expectations are for each student. With this information in hand, share it with your child and make a goals chart with your child.
Start by getting markers and a large sheet of construction paper or chart paper and putting your child’s name at the top of the chart and a favorite picture of them. Assist your child in deciding which specific goals they will work on this school year. Instead of stating, “I’ll do better in math, give specific examples, “I will learn all of the multiplication facts from 1 through 10 by November ___, 2010.” This allows for the student to track their progress more effectively. For those weeks when your child does not do well with a specific goals, list some of the reasons that they may not have fulfilled that goal.
To help your child prepare for their new teacher start by helping your child see what they may have in common with their new teacher. Cut circles (about the diameter of a roll of masking tape), out of construction paper. On each circle list a characteristic that your child and their new teacher may have in common. Use a different color for each characteristic. Put a hole in the center and put a piece of yarn through it and tie it to make a necklace or just to hang from the wall. This will help your child to always look for those good qualities in their teacher as well as show their best qualities while at school.
Provide you child with a calendar of events that lead up to the first day of school. List the days you will go school shopping and be sure to make a list of those items you will need. (Don’t forget to clip coupons to help you save money.) List any activities that the school will have prior to the first day, for example, open house/meet the teacher night or registration. List doctor and dentists appointments, school fairs held at shopping malls, parks, churches, etc. Allow your child to cross off each day and each activity will give them a sense of responsibility as well as help to focus their mind on returning to school. The more positive you are about the first day of school, the more positive they will be. Have a happy and exciting school year.